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If you could invite anyone to dinner, who would it be? They can be dead or alive – you can even kill them during dinner.
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What activities or hobbies make you feel most alive?
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Where do you see yourself in 5 years? How does your ideal life look?
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If you could travel anywhere, where would you go and why? But please don’t say Jersey Shore.
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Write down 3 things you're most grateful for in your partner.
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What's a goal you've set for yourself that you're determined to achieve? #hustle #grind
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How can I support your dreams and ambitions? Even if that dream is to become a rapper.
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Is there a cause or mission you're truly passionate about?
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Besides locking it down with me, what accomplishments are you most proud of so far?
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How can we support each other's dreams and ambitions? Even if that dream is to become a rapper.
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What in life do you feel most grateful for?
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When was the last time you did something for the first time?
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Do your best impersonation of each other.
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Now, it’s time to get real. What's a child memory you still carry with you?
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What’s an experience that made you realize your strength and resilience?
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Is there a particular place that holds deep sentimental value for you? Tell me about it.
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Let’s open this Pandora’s box: How have past relationships influenced your approach to love?
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Have you ever taken a leap of faith that led to something unexpected – good or bad?
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How have you evolved as a person in the past few years? Both big steps and small steps count.
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What's an adventure you embarked on that changed your life?
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What most excites you about your future?
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Write me a poem and perform it.
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Write down one small way you can be better in this relationship. Yes, both of you.
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Who do you think was more nervous on our first date? Me, you, or the BFF group chat?
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Obviously there are so many, but what is your favorite memory together as a couple?
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What immediately attracted you to me? What attracted you more to me over time? Was it the smell of my morning breath?
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Describe how you’d plan a perfect day/date for me? And, yes, this involves leaving the house.
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What qualities do you admire most in me – besides my hot bod.
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Play a song you love, and slow dance together. Even if one of you is not a dancer.
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What made you fall in love with me? Keep the tissues handy. (No lotion just yet.)
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What recent experience brought us closer as a couple?
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Rate both our cooking skills on a scale of 1-10. Explain yourself.
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What’s your fav gift your partner has given you? (Material or immaterial)
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What situation made you realize that we were a good match and not a hot mess?
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What don’t I give myself enough credit for? Pat my back while answering.
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How do you typically handle stress and pressure?
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In addition to “Live, love, laugh” what's a mantra or motto that keeps you grounded during tough times?
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How can I best support you when you're facing a difficult challenge? And no, I won’t be a human foot rest.
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What was the hardest thing for you to reveal about yourself?
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Finish the sentence: I’m proudest of you for_____.
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What are the things I do that make you feel loved?
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Try on an article of your partner’s clothing. Get a little silly with it.
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What's your preferred way of seeking solace and regaining balance? For extra fun, answer this in a yoga position.
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Describe a challenging time in our relationship and how we overcame it. And not that time we put together IKEA furniture.
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What role does #selfcare play in helping you navigate challenges?
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How do you see us tackling future challenges together?
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Channel your inner Hemingway: How would you title this chapter of our relationship?
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Playtime
Where do you picture us in our golden years? And yes, this also means picturing us old and wrinkly.
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How do you envision our home together in the future? Who’s going to kill the spiders?
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Is there a tradition you'd like to establish in the future? A figurative dance? An ominous chant?
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Now, for a fun one: What’s a question you’ve never asked your partner before? Now ask it.
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If we started a business together, what would it be? Power couple goals over here.
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What's a milestone you're excited to celebrate together?
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What legacy do you hope we leave for the next generation?
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What's an adventure you'd like to embark on together?
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Last in this chapter, but certainly not least: How can we ensure our future is filled with love, laughter, and fulfillment?
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Write down a promise to your partner and share it with them. Save it in a special place.
Chapter 1: Discovering Desires
Chapter 2: Exploring Experiences
Chapter 3: Connection
Chapter 4: Navigating Challenges
Chapter 5: Future Fantasies
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If you could invite anyone to dinner, who would it be? They can be dead or alive – you can even kill them during dinner.
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Now, it’s time to get real. What's a child memory you still carry with you?
5
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Where do you picture us in our golden years? And yes, this also means picturing us old and wrinkly.
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Write down one small way you can be better in this relationship. Yes, both of you.
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Who do you think was more nervous on our first date? Me, you, or the BFF group chat?
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How do you typically handle stress and pressure?
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How do you envision our home together in the future? Who’s going to kill the spiders?
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Obviously there are so many, but what is your favorite memory together as a couple?
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What activities or hobbies make you feel most alive?
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What’s an experience that made you realize your strength and resilience?
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Where do you see yourself in 5 years? How does your ideal life look?
3
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P
What immediately attracted you to me? What attracted you more to me over time? Was it the smell of my morning breath?
5
.
3
P
Is there a tradition you'd like to establish in the future? A figurative dance? An ominous chant?
2
.
3
P
Is there a particular place that holds deep sentimental value for you? Tell me about it.
4
.
3
P
In addition to “Live, love, laugh” what's a mantra or motto that keeps you grounded during tough times?
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P
Let’s open this Pandora’s box: How have past relationships influenced your approach to love?
5
.
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P
Now, for a fun one: What’s a question you’ve never asked your partner before? Now ask it.
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How can I best support you when you're facing a difficult challenge? And no, I won’t be a human foot rest.
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P
Describe how you’d plan a perfect day/date for me? And, yes, this involves leaving the house.
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P
If you could travel anywhere, where would you go and why? But please don’t say Jersey Shore.
3
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5
P
What qualities do you admire most in me – besides my hot bod.
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5
P
Have you ever taken a leap of faith that led to something unexpected – good or bad?
5
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5
P
If we started a business together, what would it be? Power couple goals over here.
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5
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Write down 3 things you're most grateful for in your partner.
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What was the hardest thing for you to reveal about yourself?
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What's a milestone you're excited to celebrate together?
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Finish the sentence: I’m proudest of you for_____.
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Play a song you love, and slow dance together. Even if one of you is not a dancer.
1
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6
P
What's a goal you've set for yourself that you're determined to achieve? #hustle #grind
1
.
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How can I support your dreams and ambitions? Even if that dream is to become a rapper.
3
.
7
P
What made you fall in love with me? Keep the tissues handy. (No lotion just yet.)
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7
P
What are the things I do that make you feel loved?
5
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7
P
What legacy do you hope we leave for the next generation?
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7
P
How have you evolved as a person in the past few years? Both big steps and small steps count.
3
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8
P
What recent experience brought us closer as a couple?
1
.
8
P
Is there a cause or mission you're truly passionate about?
5
.
8
P
What's an adventure you'd like to embark on together?
4
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8
P
Try on an article of your partner’s clothing. Get a little silly with it.
2
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8
P
What's an adventure you embarked on that changed your life?
3
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9
P
Rate both our cooking skills on a scale of 1-10. Explain yourself.
2
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9
P
What most excites you about your future?
5
.
9
P
Last in this chapter, but certainly not least: How can we ensure our future is filled with love, laughter, and fulfillment?
4
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9
P
What's your preferred way of seeking solace and regaining balance? For extra fun, answer this in a yoga position.
1
.
9
P
Besides locking it down with me, what accomplishments are you most proud of so far?
1
.
10
P
How can we support each other's dreams and ambitions? Even if that dream is to become a rapper.
3
.
10
P
What’s your fav gift your partner has given you? (Material or immaterial)
5
.
10
P
Write down a promise to your partner and share it with them. Save it in a special place.
4
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10
P
Describe a challenging time in our relationship and how we overcame it. And not that time we put together IKEA furniture.
1
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10
P
What in life do you feel most grateful for?
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10
P
Write me a poem and perform it.
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What situation made you realize that we were a good match and not a hot mess?
1
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11
P
When was the last time you did something for the first time?
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11
P
What role does #selfcare play in helping you navigate challenges?
3
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What don’t I give myself enough credit for? Pat my back while answering.
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12
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How do you see us tackling future challenges together?
1
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12
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Do your best impersonation of each other.
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13
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Channel your inner Hemingway: How would you title this chapter of our relationship?
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1
Playtime
Let’s get down to business. What's the one sensual touch that could make your nipples cut glass?
1
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2
Playtime
Are there any hidden fantasies you've been eager to explore? Don’t be shy.
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3
Playtime
What's your definition of amazing sex?
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Share a secret kink or desire you've never mentioned before. Now share it on LinkedIn. JK.
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5
Playtime
What's an unconventional place that you've always fantasized about doin’ the deed?
1
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6
Playtime
Is there a particular scent, taste, or image that turns you on instantly?
1
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7
Playtime
Describe a fantasy scenario that makes your heart race – besides when I take out the trash.
1
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8
Playtime
French kiss for 20 seconds. Don’t forget your tongue.
1
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9
Playtime
What type of role-play scenario tickles your fancy?
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10
Playtime
Do you watch porn? If so, what’s one of your favorites?
1
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11
Playtime
What's an erotic novel or scene that resonates deeply with you?
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12
Playtime
Share a memory of ours that makes you horny just thinking about it.
1
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13
Playtime
Besides the bed, what is your favorite place to have sex?
1
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14
Playtime
When am I the sexiest: Fresh out the shower, or all made up ready for a night out?
1
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15
Playtime
Apart from a furry onesie, are there types of clothing that you find highly erotic?
1
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16
Playtime
What is your favorite type of foreplay?
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What’s your all time favorite position?
1
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Can you describe the last time you got turned on in public?
1
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19
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Are you the initiator during sex or do you prefer someone else initiating and/or surprising you?
1
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20
Playtime
Do you prefer romantic love-making sessions where we get lost in each other’s eyes or some wilder, dirtier moments?
1
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21
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Romantic tunes? Or something more uptempo?
1
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Playtime
Pick one, fast: Shower sex or car sex.
1
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What do you think about using toys during our sessions?
1
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What’s your best impression of the way I orgasm?
1
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What’s your favorite physical feature of mine? And don’t say everything.
1
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What’s your biggest ick?
1
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27
Playtime
This or that: Bad sex or bad food for the rest of your life?
1
.
28
Playtime
Go through your partner’s underwear drawer and find something for them to wear.
2
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1
Playtime
How comfortable are you discussing your sexual desires with me? Does it feel like you’re lounging on a nice, leather couch?
2
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2
Playtime
What's a gesture or signal you'd use to indicate you're in the mood?
2
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3
Playtime
Share a time when clear communication during intimacy led to an unforgettable experience.
2
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4
Playtime
What kind of feedback or guidance would make you feel more confident in bed?
2
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5
Playtime
How do you feel about trying a safe word during more adventurous encounters?
2
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6
Playtime
Send your partner a dirty note. Just try to keep playing the game after.
2
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7
Playtime
What's a way we can discuss trying new things without feeling pressured?
2
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8
Playtime
Would you be up for having (weekly or monthly) conversations to explore new things?
2
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9
Playtime
What’s one thing you would like me to do more of in the bedroom?
2
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10
Playtime
And, drumroll please: What’s one small way we can improve our sex life, if at all?
2
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11
Playtime
Slowly kiss the neck for ten seconds. Take turns.
3
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1
Playtime
This or that: Spontaneous quickie in the heat of the moment or long, slow buildup before the fun starts?
3
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2
Playtime
How do you feel about nudes? Love ‘em? Hate ‘em? Eh?
3
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3
Playtime
What about taking pictures or making videos while doing the dirty together?
3
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4
Playtime
Would you have sex in public? If so, which place would turn you on?
3
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5
Playtime
How do you feel about experimenting with temperature play?
3
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6
Playtime
Would you like to watch yourself in the mirror while having sex?
3
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8
Playtime
Would you be open to watching porn together? If so, would you prefer soft or hard?
3
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9
Playtime
How do you feel about pets being in the room while doing it?
3
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10
Playtime
The press has been dying to know: What do you think about bondage? Being restrained?
3
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11
Playtime
Apart from stubbing your toe against the couch, have you ever experienced joy from pain? Is this something you would be up for?
3
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12
Playtime
How would you feel about getting rough? Biting, spanking, punching, choking? What about leather and latex?
3
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13
Playtime
Slowly remove a piece of your clothing. How seductive can you get?
3
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14
Playtime
Would you be open to having a threesome? If so, how would you see this?
3
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15
Playtime
How do you feel about tantric sex?
3
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16
Playtime
If we were to do roleplay, what would your fantasy be?
3
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17
Playtime
Have you acted as a submissive/slave? Would you do it (again)?
3
.
18
Playtime
And, last but not least, how do you feel about anal play?
3
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19
Playtime
Close your eyes and moan in your sexiest voice.
4
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2
Playtime
How do you typically handle stress and pressure?
4
.
3
Playtime
In addition to “Live, love, laugh” what's a mantra or motto that keeps you grounded during tough times?
4
.
4
Playtime
How can I best support you when you're facing a difficult challenge? And no, I won’t be a human foot rest.
4
.
5
Playtime
What was the hardest thing for you to reveal about yourself?
4
.
6
Playtime
Finish the sentence: I’m proudest of you for_____.
4
.
7
Playtime
What are the things I do that make you feel loved?
4
.
8
Playtime
Try on an article of your partner’s clothing. Get a little silly with it.
4
.
9
Playtime
What's your preferred way of seeking solace and regaining balance? For extra fun, answer this in a yoga position.
4
.
10
Playtime
Describe a challenging time in our relationship and how we overcame it. And not that time we put together IKEA furniture.
4
.
11
Playtime
What role does #selfcare play in helping you navigate challenges?
4
.
12
Playtime
How do you see us tackling future challenges together?
4
.
13
Playtime
Channel your inner Hemingway: How would you title this chapter of our relationship?
5
.
1
Playtime
Where do you picture us in our golden years? And yes, this also means picturing us old and wrinkly.
5
.
2
Playtime
How do you envision our home together in the future? Who’s going to kill the spiders?
5
.
3
Playtime
Is there a tradition you'd like to establish in the future? A figurative dance? An ominous chant?
5
.
4
Playtime
Now, for a fun one: What’s a question you’ve never asked your partner before? Now ask it.
5
.
5
Playtime
If we started a business together, what would it be? Power couple goals over here.
5
.
6
Playtime
What's a milestone you're excited to celebrate together?
5
.
7
Playtime
What legacy do you hope we leave for the next generation?
5
.
8
Playtime
What's an adventure you'd like to embark on together?
5
.
9
Playtime
Last in this chapter, but certainly not least: How can we ensure our future is filled with love, laughter, and fulfillment?
5
.
10
Playtime
Write down a promise to your partner and share it with them. Save it in a special place.
Chapter 1: Desire Descriptors
Chapter 2: Communication is Key
Chapter 3: Exploring Kinks
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1
P
Let’s get down to business. What's the one sensual touch that could make your nipples cut glass?
3
.
1
P
This or that: Spontaneous quickie in the heat of the moment or long, slow buildup before the fun starts?
2
.
1
P
How comfortable are you discussing your sexual desires with me? Does it feel like you’re lounging on a nice, leather couch?
2
.
2
P
What's a gesture or signal you'd use to indicate you're in the mood?
3
.
2
P
How do you feel about nudes? Love ‘em? Hate ‘em? Eh?
1
.
2
P
Are there any hidden fantasies you've been eager to explore? Don’t be shy.
2
.
3
P
Share a time when clear communication during intimacy led to an unforgettable experience.
1
.
3
P
What's your definition of amazing sex?
3
.
3
P
What about taking pictures or making videos while doing the dirty together?
3
.
4
P
Would you have sex in public? If so, which place would turn you on?
2
.
4
P
What kind of feedback or guidance would make you feel more confident in bed?
1
.
4
P
Share a secret kink or desire you've never mentioned before. Now share it on LinkedIn. JK.
2
.
5
P
How do you feel about trying a safe word during more adventurous encounters?
3
.
5
P
How do you feel about experimenting with temperature play?
1
.
5
P
What's an unconventional place that you've always fantasized about doin’ the deed?
2
.
6
P
Send your partner a dirty note. Just try to keep playing the game after.
1
.
6
P
Is there a particular scent, taste, or image that turns you on instantly?
3
.
6
P
Would you like to watch yourself in the mirror while having sex?
2
.
7
P
What's a way we can discuss trying new things without feeling pressured?
1
.
7
P
Describe a fantasy scenario that makes your heart race – besides when I take out the trash.
2
.
8
P
Would you be up for having (weekly or monthly) conversations to explore new things?
1
.
8
P
French kiss for 20 seconds. Don’t forget your tongue.
3
.
8
P
Would you be open to watching porn together? If so, would you prefer soft or hard?
3
.
9
P
How do you feel about pets being in the room while doing it?
2
.
9
P
What’s one thing you would like me to do more of in the bedroom?
1
.
9
P
What type of role-play scenario tickles your fancy?
1
.
10
P
Do you watch porn? If so, what’s one of your favorites?
2
.
10
P
And, drumroll please: What’s one small way we can improve our sex life, if at all?
3
.
10
P
The press has been dying to know: What do you think about bondage? Being restrained?
3
.
11
P
Apart from stubbing your toe against the couch, have you ever experienced joy from pain? Is this something you would be up for?
1
.
11
P
What's an erotic novel or scene that resonates deeply with you?
2
.
11
P
Slowly kiss the neck for ten seconds. Take turns.
3
.
12
P
How would you feel about getting rough? Biting, spanking, punching, choking? What about leather and latex?
1
.
12
P
Share a memory of ours that makes you horny just thinking about it.
3
.
13
P
Slowly remove a piece of your clothing. How seductive can you get?
1
.
13
P
Besides the bed, what is your favorite place to have sex?
3
.
14
P
Would you be open to having a threesome? If so, how would you see this?
1
.
14
P
When am I the sexiest: Fresh out the shower, or all made up ready for a night out?
1
.
15
P
Apart from a furry onesie, are there types of clothing that you find highly erotic?
3
.
15
P
How do you feel about tantric sex?
3
.
16
P
If we were to do roleplay, what would your fantasy be?
1
.
16
P
What is your favorite type of foreplay?
3
.
17
P
Have you acted as a submissive/slave? Would you do it (again)?
1
.
17
P
What’s your all time favorite position?
3
.
18
P
And, last but not least, how do you feel about anal play?
1
.
18
P
Can you describe the last time you got turned on in public?
1
.
19
P
Are you the initiator during sex or do you prefer someone else initiating and/or surprising you?
3
.
19
P
Close your eyes and moan in your sexiest voice.
1
.
20
P
Do you prefer romantic love-making sessions where we get lost in each other’s eyes or some wilder, dirtier moments?
1
.
21
P
Romantic tunes? Or something more uptempo?
1
.
22
P
Pick one, fast: Shower sex or car sex.
1
.
23
P
What do you think about using toys during our sessions?
1
.
24
P
What’s your best impression of the way I orgasm?
1
.
25
P
What’s your favorite physical feature of mine? And don’t say everything.
1
.
26
P
What’s your biggest ick?
1
.
27
P
This or that: Bad sex or bad food for the rest of your life?
1
.
28
P
Go through your partner’s underwear drawer and find something for them to wear.
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